A blog about the healing power of intimacy and love by Nicola Foster
[SPOILER ALERT: There is no normal!]
If there’s one thing I wish for all couples in a sexual relationship to know, it’s that there is no such thing as normal. When it comes to defining your relationship, it’s more about what feels right and enjoyable for you both. So many different influences have influenced what you might think of as normal, and over time, your definition of normal will most likely change.
I love this quote by Maya Angelou, as it sums up my view of normality in a relationship:
"If you're always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be."
Many different things will impact on your definition of a normal sexual relationship. How you view normal is dependent on your culture, the society you live in and even your time in history.
There's no such thing as normal.
It changes from one person to another. And this is what helps us all become unique and different.
When it comes to the research on societal norms in...