Growing INTIMACY offers courses, events and a podcast for men and women who want to learn how to relate more consciously, deepen intimacy, and enjoy more pleasure and connection. 

Hello, I'm Nicola Foster.

I'm deeply committed to helping couples and individuals heal and repair their relationships.

As a qualified relationship and psychosexual therapist, I specialise in supporting couples and individuals with repairing relationship issues and problems to do with sex and intimacy.

I've been working in the field of personal development for more than 10 years. Initially, I was a coach specialising in careers. However, my own struggles in relationship led me to study relationships and sexuality as my main passion.

Since then, I've made it my career and mission to help people create happy, healthy, sexy relationships.

I offer coaching, courses and workshops, online and in person.

Some of my other passions

I am a huge fan of poetry and soulful writing and I believe it can be a powerful path to healing. So you'll find that my courses include the occasional poem and quote from the authors who have helped me in my own dark nights of the soul.

I began on a path of meditation and spiritual growth in 2007 and I love to practice conscious dance and yoga and attend workshops, festivals and retreats. 

I'm also a bit of a foodie - one day I'd like to go on Masterchef!

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Giving Back

It's important to me to support causes I care about. This year I am raising money for Refuge. As Wanting More grows a percentage of profit will go to good causes and this makes me very happy!


"When love beckons to you follow him, Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth......

But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.

Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love. And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself."

Kahlil Gibran

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